A new generation of matchmakers has emerged in recent years.
Considered as a response to current dating problems, these high-end services have a very high price (more than € 10,000) and are aimed at wealthy clients who refer to the lessons learned from behavioral psychology, in order to realize their meeting in good conditions.
1. Flexibility is the key
When we describe the ideal person, we all have non-negotiable criteria.
But love coach Amy Van Doran, 31, founder of the Modern Love Club, tells her clients that they only have 3 non-negotiable criteria, that’s all. She convinces them by proving that we can spend an excellent evening with criteria that finally were not a problem.
Van Doran says that this negative mentality can create unrealistic expectations, creating a vicious circle in which criticism and disappointment reign supreme.
In the end, the more you are open and the more likely you are to have a good meeting.
2. Knowing from the beginning the intentions of the person is crucial
The first months of a relationship are a series of confused feelings and misinterpreted emotions.
Matchmakers help reduce anxiety as clients who make this move all want a serious and lasting relationship.
That’s why it’s important to select a dating site that brings together people with the same goals as you.
For a serious relationship, go to a site like Meetic , which is the site best known for its ease of use and its authentic meetings.
Its intelligent selection system is designed to evaluate your own personality and offer you the right profiles. It analyzes your behaviors, what you like and do not like, what you are looking for and then suggests encounters based on your affinities.